Why do only ugly women like me on Tinder? Is it because I'm an ugly man?

Such an interesting phenomena I’ve been placed at around a 7/10 or an 8/10 on the attractiveness scale depending on who you ask but I got a lot of sewer trolls liking me. I totally concur with the notion that women on tinders standards are absurdly high. I have also noticed it really depends on your location in areas like Austin, Knoxville, and Athens ie college towns I not only got a significantly larger percentage of likes but the quality of my matches were much higher. But in Dallas where I’m originally from the dating scene tends to be older so you either get girls who are home from school or girls that I wouldn’t dream of getting with on my drunkest night.

I remember I first got tinder my last year of highschool and got 99+ matches within a week or so and I got tinder gold very briefly just to see who all was liking me and I was astounded to see that most if not all them were well below my standards but having used the app on and off for 2 years or so at this point I’d say the distribution for an above average looking guy tends to be 60/40 because a lot of attractive girls consider themselves to be above using dating apps and the ones that are on there are really looking for 6 foot tall guys who are at least a universal 9 or above but that always tends to be objective.

My advice if you struggle with dating in real life you should avoid dating apps all together I never struggled hooking up with girls in either real life or on dating apps when I was single but I often found myself a little disappointed when girls I considered to be in my league didn’t bat an eye at me not always the case but it’s more often than not. If you are overweight, have a lot of acne or are otherwise considered to be unattractive DO NOT use tinder it will only further damage your confidence which will only hold you back more in the dating scene. I struggled with confidence sometimes when the hot girl I matched with didn’t text me back because I was one of 50 guys messaging her at any given time and I literally had at least 1500 likes on this app if not more the last time I checked if you are below average looking approach women in real life might be really nerve racking at first but you will be happier in the end I can guarantee it the person I’m with now and I met IRL and I think the basis of our relationship is much better because of it good luck out there fellas I hope this helped.

Hello, I have a question about astral projection. I started to get interested in this a little while after my mum passed in april. I thought I may be able to see her and speak with her if I managed to achieve astral projection. Since this interest, every time i sleep on my back I go into sleep paralysis. However, I cant progress into astral projection because it is very scary for me as I feel like I'm suffocating when this happens. I panic and force myself to wake up. This only ever happened about once a year before this. It sometimes lasts a long time. This has happened about 3 times per week since my mum died, as mentioned on a previous post. I no longer try to go into it anymore(due to the suffocating feeling), but it still happens. I read that sleep paralysis is the pathway to astral projection. Why has this started to happen so frequently since simply taking an interest in it? Is this connected to the afterlife? I am concerned about it as I now cannot seem to stop this happening. Could it be my mum trying to communicate? Im asking due to more knowledge around this in this group.